How do I let him know I need it rough?

Question

How can I let my husband know I need a good rough session? Like all the stops. Choking, hair pulling, biting, spanking just rough & relentless….
We have been married for 6 years, in a relationship for 10 years. We were each others firsts & onlys for actual sex. I don’t want him to be weirded out so I don’t really know how to bring it up. He knows I like it when he does those things and he will do them occasionally but I just need like a really good all in session that makes me go crazy…..
Any tips on how to let him know what I need without him thinking I’m insane? 😅

Answer

Straight up tell him. !!! 
Or as your all in the moment start talking dirty and say the things you want. Guide his hands/head everything and anything.

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Just tell him. Nothing like telling your man what to do. ;-) Have fun!

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The best thing to do is be fully upfront about what you would like so that your intimacy doesn't risk fizzling out due to your needs not being fully satisfied. My fiance was nervous to be rough with me because he was afraid of hurting me but over time he had become more comfortable and I tap his arm or say a safe word if he's a little too rough with choking, slapping, hair pulling and or biting. Also like what one of the other commenters said, direct him on what you'd like him to do while in the act but first have a conversation about it before hand and come up with signals for each other.

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Yes just have the conversation with him especially if he already knows you are into those things and has done them before

How do I let him know I need it rough?

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