Bf mentions family’s negative comments regarding my single mom status

Idk if he just said that to make me overthink but we’re having another child and he mentioned some of his family members were surprised to learn this is my 2nd child. Idk who those family members are tho because we’ve been together for awhile and most of the family I met are already aware.

Must be some estranged aunt or uncle who never comes around idk they be the ones with the most to say. Or he could’ve been mentioning old family comments? But I took them as recent since I’m just now currently pregnant and that’s what they were discussing. It’s 2025 like cmon most of the people in my bf’s family are single moms, like perhaps once upon a time they were married at first and now they’re long since divorced like just bc you get married doesn’t make a difference if you can’t stay married it’s the same result.

And even his own mom was a single mom for awhile before getting remarried when my bf was a teen like it happens. Most ppl Ik have been divorced/sound like they want to be divorced and idk marriage doesn’t prove a happy relationship and situation. So his random family shouldn’t be warning him to be “careful” when not knowing the whole story, my ex left me over a stupid reason he probably made up to just get away from me. According to him it was bc I spied on him through a door bell camera.

Ik his reason was not valid when he stayed with his current baby mama after she hit him and beat him up, and was outright cheating on him. So clearly he was looking for any reason to leave me and Ik its because he felt like I wasn’t attractive enough but he doesn’t look that great either like he’s shaped like a penguin he needs to own a mirror. And it was right after I gave birth too so I wasn’t gonna be looking like I did before.

Anyway it just weirded me out hearing those comments because his family is blended, his step dad also has like 4 kids on his side that aren’t his moms kids so I assumed everyone was understanding relationships don’t last and sometimes you move on to someone else. I shouldn’t focus on the negative comments but it just has me overthinking, people wanna say stuff but don’t want to offer anything that’s helpful… then try to come around and see the baby later like I’m still it’s mom and you’re talking shit about me? Yeah right