Frustrations of my relationship

I’m 22 he’s 54 ( please be respectful of age difference ) anyways he doesn’t do anything like which is understandable he’s lived his younger years which is fine we just really don’t do anything I can’t wear what I want to but he’s comfortable with me wearing sweatpants and big T-shirt which I don’t like that I don’t feel cute or pretty in that all the time especially now it’s warming up I can’t go out have a drink cus his ex from years ago was a drug addict but the difference is I work 30+ hrs a week and when I want just a drink once n awhile it’s a problem i want to just go anywhere it’s just no fair he wants me to stay at home and wait for him on my days off which is fine but every time minding u I have my own car , has my location AirTag and everything but every time gets boring idk maybe it js age difference but im loyal I don’t talk to other men I don’t look for attention aleast I can wear what I want the clothes u wear shouldn’t make your partner feel some type of way about u im a women I want to feel sexy not like im walking around looking like a boy ! I have talked to him bout this he says its the respect if ur partner doesn’t like what u wear u shouldn’t do it but im tired of stopping doing something so ppl can feel comfortable at the end of the day im looking good for him