Should we divorce?

So we have 13 years dating since we werew both 18 we are now both 32 we have 2 beautiful baby gírls one just turned 2 the other is 5 months anyways we have been having sooo much problems lately out of anything we will fight we both have lost our patience and it's like we pretty much hate each other we go from 0 to 100 right away.

We both have really really disrespected each other so bad we fight every week for the past 3 weekends have gone to nothing. I hate my weekends he ignored me a lot I've tried to train him to put the bathroom seat down for over a year or a year.i tell him things he always forgets i tell him stories and I have to say hello because he don't reply .I had sex with 1 person before him when we argue he says I wasn't a virgin anyways. He always says I need mental help.right now we are in an argument he said he wanted a divorce which he said last rime too.i told him dont say that únless ur serious ....and he did it again...I feel like I fuk3n hate him i cabt fujen sta d him....im staying homewith my girls and he says its a luxury...b3cuase im home in the a/c orgearer bascially not dealing with the outside weather like he is...he pretty much thinks I do nothing at home

.if u made it this far thabjs for listening ...please give me an advice