how ??

how are yall masturbating 😅 like seriously. how do you make yourself actually get off. i’m 20. im just now trying to learn how to orgasm because i truly don’t know that i have. i saw some lady talking about a pillow ?! what do you do with a pillow? i saw someone else uses a massage gun. i saw someone say they use some weird egg type thing. im so lost!!! also i’m not ready to buy any toys yet. i’m just now trying to tap into this side of things.