HAS ANYONE BEEN IN THIS SITUATION‼️ A MOTHERS HEART 💔

I have a 21 year old dtr she is refusing to pay rent I got a car in my name for her and she left me stuck with car note so I took plates. She then junk the car as I was stuck paying the car off… she has been resentful and unforgiving towards. She has been very disobedient disrespectful and she is so angry. I tried encouraging counseling she has been committed a couple times for SI. But never wants to f/u with counseling. She will not answer my calls or texts as she chooses not to pay rent I see her ubering food.. I type up a eviction notice and sent it to her no response I called her trying to give her a opportunity to let me know her plan to pay rent no response my heart is absolutely torn I don’t want to evict her but she is leaving me no choice she only pays 550 and I tried to explain to her how she can’t find rent for this amount. I have given her chance after chance. Has anyone had to evict or kick out their child? If so how did you position your heart to do this… 💔🥹