Friendly or flirty??

Recently I’ve been questiong myself. Most of girls my boyfriends meet are the girlfriends of his friends/family, what bothers me the most is the way they behave around him.

I accept the fact that I am an overthinker and a bit sensetive (or alot idk fr) but sometimes the girls take it so much further, I mean his friends wife (the one I hate the most) once said “OMG your voice is so manly and perfect” or “OMG you’re so tall and good looking you should be model” in front of me and his husband :/

Ok fine we consider her as an exception, I can bring you another example.

FYI I’m 5’10 and he’s 6’5.

Last week his cousin and his girlfriend came to our town to visit and her reaction was just like… (it was the second time that we met her)

She said “OMG your english so good as well as you voice” or “I have a tall friend who can’t find anyone proper for her you should see her” or “Nazanin is too far instead of her can you tell me which photo of my friend should post for her birthday? In which photo she looks bette?” Or “I don’t like your socks you should change it for me” or “OMG you’re so smart you know everything”

I know I know you say that you should’ve said sth but at that time we had a huge fight and we weren’t even talking to each other!!! ( and it didn’t make any different because I’m shy and I don’t talk that much or answer the way I want!)

I told him about these and he said no in your head everybody tries to flirt with me it’s not like that you’re too sensetive.

He doesn’t flirt at all, he’s just a bit friendly, I mean he never makes comments like these at all even when we’re alone.

I wanna know who’s fault it is?? I mean who’s to blame?? I’m starting to think that’s my problem maybe he’s right I’m too sensetive, because you know all the girls can’t be that toxic! I think I’m going crazy🙄