TTC with PCOS + Spiritual Donor — Advice Needed

So my donor is very spiritual and into zodiac signs. He said he’s only open to donating between June 22–July 25 because he believes in conceiving under certain astrological signs. He even gave me a list of dates tied to zodiac energy 🌀

But if I test my ovulation this week and hit a peak, should I ask if he’s open to donating earlier than planned, even if it doesn’t align with his zodiac preferences?

Here’s my concern:

I’m 30 with PCOS, so my cycles are really unpredictable. I didn’t have a period last month, but I finally started one on June 4 and it just ended today (June 11).

He’s visiting his family soon, and I’ll be meeting him for the first time—just to get to know him better and make sure we’re making the right decision.

My wife and I really like him and don’t want to look for anyone else. So many people have backed out on us, and he truly feels like the right fit.

We’re also hoping to have a Pisces baby, so timing really matters to us too. 💫

Technically, if we tried this weekend, I wouldn’t even know if I conceived until after July 25. I don’t want to waste a good cycle just because my body doesn’t follow the stars 🌒

Any advice or thoughts?” 🌱✨

Glow Resources

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

Glow helps you navigate your fertility journey with smart tools, personalized insights, and guidance from medical experts who understand what matters most.

25+ million

Users

4.8 stars

200k+ app ratings

20+

Medical advisors