Crap support

Have you guys ever dealt with family members having their two cents about your choices in life? I spoke to my mother. Which sometimes I avoid to but sometimes I fall into guilt and do. It starts off nice but then it leads to hear unsupportive advice. My mother starts telling me that the amount of kids that I have is perfect and enough. Anything more than that is a lot. I have three. One of them has autism. She starts telling me my child will need me a lot and forever. I know what she means by that and it’s because my toddler has autism (level2) to be specific. I think that’s not supportive. She’s trying to put fear into me having more children. She tells me of course I’am not telling you what to do but the world is bad right now to have more children and says of course she’ll be supportive of whatever my choice is. She starts by telling me that because I have migraines in general it could mean that I could also like her have an autoimmune disease. I don’t have any symptoms of that. I can’t stand that she’s trying to fear me into thinking I could have that too. It’s ridiculous. She says you are my child too and I care about what happens to you. I wish she understands her support is shit. Just because she decided to have two doesn’t mean everyone thinks like her. I’am honestly sick of her and the rest of my family so called “support”. This is why I think I should reevaluate talking to them.