Am i wrong to feel this way? What should i.do?

I just want opinions and others views.

So, im 27f and been married to partner 33m for almost 2 years now. Every aspect of our relationship is almost perfect except the sex. I don't really feel like his focus is to pleasure me. He has and still does go down on me and rub and etc, but it just feels like whenever it concerns him. I spoken to him about it when we first got married and he said its because I hadn't communicated what I wanted and so when I did he did start focusing on my pleasure....

However, I feel like the issue is he turns me down for sex and has sex with me whenever he feels like it. I know that's how its meant to be anyway, i mean no one owes anyone sex and everyone has the right to say no so thats ok. But i dont know what it is but i felt a bit bothered. I miss feeling wanted sexually and I miss someone wanting to pleasure me bad....I feel like this aspect of the relationship is missing. We do have sex 1 to 2 times a week and our work schedules are different. My work pattern is fixed and his is all over the place so I do understand. I got abit bothered about yesterday when we had sex and I do think I perhaps shouldn't have and I am in the wrong for feeling this. He took a nap, i joined him in abit. We hugged tight and he got hard and so we had sex. I took out my vibrator but it died so I didn't get off. He came. Later in the evening, I asked for sex and he said he doesn't feel like it and suggested that we can do it again tomorrow evening. I just took myself to the bedroom and got off myself. He did say to me to quickly charge the vibrator when we were doing it but I told him it takes a while to charge, so we just carried on. I did enjoy the sex with him tbh, its just that my previous partners always cared if I came or not even though I really struggled and never orgasmed if im honest. I just want a man to make me feel wanted and to literally want to pleasure me...I dont think my current partner feels this way. I think he does have a lower sex drive, he doesnt watch porn or masturbate. He has been cheated on in the past by 3 different woman and i think that could.be why even though.i.know its.not an excuse.

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