No Judgment Please

Im currently10 weeks pregnant. Im a smoker. Ive been tryingsooo hard to quit altogether, but im struggling. Ive tried gum, ive tried the patch. Nothing is working. I know its not good for the baby or myself. This has been a habit ive struggled with for YEARS, unfortunately. My last pregnancy i beat myselfup because i was unable to quit fully. Thankfully my little man was completely,fine, but that still does not make it ok. Im asking for tips, tricks, and advice on how to quit this nasty habit.