No labido or pleasure

I'm 23 and come from a very strict family and i didn't even know that girls get any kind of pleasure. I started dating my bf when i was 21 and we r still together and going strong. I love him so much and find him attractive but I'm not getting turned on by anything this days. Its been almost a year and he doesn't even finish because he sees that I'm not enjoying it. We tried foreplay, him going down on me,... a lot of things but nothing worked and I'm always dry as hell and not turned on. Sometimes its even painful when he enters a little. I don't know what to do. I went to the hospital and there is nothing wrong with me the doctor even laughed when i was about to cry. Please help i just feel broken. And i get a panic attack thinking about this never changing and living the rest of my life just envying ppl when they say they are horny.