Damper on sex life

Hi ladies,

This is TMI but that’s what we do here right? So my husband and I have been trying for a baby since Oct 2020. In 2021 we started timed sex with letrozole and ovidrel. Then we did 5 rounds of IUI’s. After IUI’s during the 2 week wait we would have sex and then at least 1 time I would bleed. I was thinking maybe we messed up the process and I would cry. My last IUI was in May 2022. After that I would still bleed at least 1 time during sex when it’s not my period. Well the past several months I have been bleeding more. The last month though every time we have sex I bleed. And I don’t know why! I saw a midwife last year to see if she could see what’s wrong and she couldn’t find anything. I’m going to the doctor today since it’s gotten worse. But I was wondering if anyone has experienced this and got it checked out or can give me ideas on what to ask at the doctors to make sure the ball doesn’t get dropped again. It is putting a major damper on my sex drive. My husband doesn’t care but I do. It’s not normal for this to happen.

Thanks in advance!!