Husband guys night until followin day

My husband hasn't had a guys night for about one year. He works a lot and doesn't have a ton of friends. When he has a guys night he stays out alllll night and doesn't come home until the following day. That's why I hate his guys nights! His friend he goes out with gives me a lot of anxiety too because he isn't supportive of us. So they went to a restaurant and played video games all night at my husbands business. My husband called twice to tell me he loves me and thanked me for this and then texted me at 6am telling me he was going to sleep now. Reaching out to me was sweet but going to Ed at 6am That frustrated me because it means he will sleep in until the late afternoon. We have a 2 year old and we had plans this afternoon. What would you do? Play nice and let him have his day even though we had plans today at 2pm to see my 101 year old grandma!? Wait and see if he'll make it in time? Text and remind him? Or just show at his business with our little one and wake him up?