Should I just give up my baby at this point? (Totally kidding) 🥺😭

My MIL is all the time having her way with my daughter. (1)

When we were in the car, she was in the other seat with my daughter (rear facing) feeding her chips. I told my husband to tell her not to, he didn’t— that’s his mom, she wouldn’t danger our daughter.

When we lived with my MIL when are house was being renovated, she had my daughter all the time. She used to just sneak her out the living room when I put her down in the floor to play. I’d be doing laundry, dishes, cleaning etc. she use to take her to her bedroom and come to find out she was giving her medicine because she was ‘sick’ behind my back

She brought in a ‘healer’ covered her in some sort of greasy stuff behind my back. I don’t believe in that.

She’s all the time changing my daughter even when I get done changing her. I feel like she has a fetish. I don’t dare tell my husband that….. and she takes her clothes because she says my daughter has a blow out. NICE clothes

Recently, she keeps putting gunk in my daughters hair to “keep the hair down” and using rubber bands in my daughters hair. I told my husband not to allow it again. 1. I bathe our daughter and 2. It’s makes her hair greasy and nasty 3. She pulls the rubber bands out her hair and it damages her hair

Guess who gets mad and doesn’t tell his mom? My husband…. Because she did it a second time!

I have 3 kids. 2 boys and a girl, she only wants my daughter. Every time she is off work, she begs to go out of town ‘shopping’ with my daughter.

I made the mistake once….. I don’t know where my daughter is. I told my husband I need her number and they won’t give it to me….. and she’s always brought back around 11 pm or 12 in the morning.

Also, there is a language barrier. I don’t speak her language. But I know she doesn’t like me…. Her way of thinking is that I stole her son from her. Her son is suppose to be providing for her since she ‘suffered’ for him. She’s sick and twisted. She’s a narcissist that abused him as a kid. My husband doesn’t see it….

Anyways, my son (5) is starting to see how she is. He’s all the time saying, “do you hate my mom? Why don’t you talk to her?” I told my husband that and he doesn’t see a problem.

You can tell someone doesn’t like you by their body language. And when she talks about me to my husband, she refers to me as ‘the mom’ not by my name, which I feel like is disrespectful.

The other day, I went out of my way to take the kids to visit her, and she took my baby, went into her room and had her back turned away from me the whole time. Not a ‘thank you’ ‘hi’ or anything.

I walk on egg shells when I’m near her but she’s the best according to my husband. It’s like she is his wife. He treats her so much better than me