Husband distant because of no sex

My husband has been distant from me for about a week. I’m 21 weeks pregnant, and sex is very uncomfortable for me. The things that used to turn me on just don’t anymore. My husband has been told this but hasn’t changed anything.

I was still having sex mostly regularly with him until recently. We had sex 3 days in a row, and I actually wanted the fourth and he rejected me because our sex has been mediocre and honestly that has sent me through it.

It’s been 2 weeks since we have had sec and that is basically the reason. I’m pretty hurt. I feel like he doesn’t understand. I don’t feel valued like I’m trying to please you even though I’m not in the mood…but it isn’t enough…

He has been emotionally distant for the past week and it’s put me on a depressing rollercoaster. I confronted him about it and he essentially blamed me for being sexually unavailable.

I want to give him sex and please him but idk what to do. I don’t think I can handle being told what I’m doing isn’t enough. He would tell me sex is how he feels close to me…but yet it can be mediocre 😞 I’m just at a loss and want some advice or maybe just an ear to hear as I’m pretty emotional and have been all day from being around him but not able to connect with him.

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