My BF (27M) of 10 years will leave me (28F)because of my job
I am devastated and I have so much anxiety. I don’t live with my bf. I met him when I was 18!!! He never talks about marriage or moving in. He mentions it but he never acts on it. We live 1 hour and 20 min away. That’s about 70 miles.
He is a mechanic and has his own business with his dad. His day off is Sunday so that was our day to meet up and see each other.
I started a new job in January and originally my days off were Sunday and Monday. Around March, a girl was fired and my days off are now Thursday’s and Fridays. Obviously that interferes with our Sundays. My boss said once they hire a new girl I’ll get back my Sundays. She has been hired but can’t be on her own until July.
It has been causing many issues with our relationship. I have asked my bf if I can just drive to him when he’s off work and we can get dinner. He loves to be at work until 7pm. His dad leaves at 5…. He keeps saying he won’t stop his work to just see me.
He keeps telling me I have to ask my boss the Sundays off or else he won’t see me PERIOD. I can’t ask. It’s hard when you work for someone. I’m off on Sundays at 4pm and he doesn’t want to meet up after because he said he won’t drive to just see me 2 hours and he stuck in traffics. He said he needs the whole day to see me.
Today he texted me he came to LA (los Angeles) he was 17 min away. It was 2pm. I told him why can’t he see me and he said I’m off until 4 and it’s too late. He said my schedule is bullshit and won’t drive to see me but he came to eat??? I don’t get it if you’re 17 minutes away why can’t he wait until it’s 4 to see me.
I told him why can’t we just move in together and he said he won’t marry me until he gets to see me more often. In July I get my schedule back I just wish he can work something with me.
He turned off his phone and said he won’t talk to me until I talk to my boss or call in sick. I want to cry so bad!!!!! My messages won’t go through but he is on social media? Did he block me??
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