Do you ladies think this is weird ?

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I met my co worker early this year & we hang out here & there . I’ve invited her over a few times . Always a good time . Anyways I think now she’s getting too comfortable bc recently she added my husband & messaged him very late at night . Sending him a text of a home out In Texas when we’re in California . Saying the homes are better & cheaper .. first of all wtf you sent that home to me before but why my man now . Idk I want to ask her in person why are messaging MY husband so late at ?! Would you say something or keep your

Mouth shut bc my man doesn’t want me to start shit but wtf did I really start ?! THERES BOUNDARIES!

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Unless the 2 of them had discussions about moving to other cheaper states so she sent that as a follow up fyi, I find that a very random and strange thing to do. I would ask about it like what the heck was that about.

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My husband would have automatically blocked her when she tried to add him(back when we had social media like IG), but in your situation I'd tell him to block her. She doesn't need to talk to him late at night, or at all really. I've had hour long discussions with my friend's husbands, with my friends present. Never texted, called, messaged any of my friend's husbands directly. Even if they wanted me to track something down or build something for them I'd message my friend to let her husband know any news.