Flirty or what?

Hello ladies so I have a question.

Today in front of me my husband was watching his phone and was looking at stories and I saw a girls story that we both know. I didn’t really understand at first because is suppose to be trough the phone number. He fell asleep and I know I did wrong but I checked his phone trough the contacts and didn’t find her name or aka. I went back to the story and saw that it was under her dad’s aka.

And what really bothers me is that he always talks to her and don’t tell me but he does let me know or we talk about when he texts with his friends ( guys). And we have had arguments already. Because she doesn’t really speak with me unless we see each other in person otherwise we don’t speak, but they do text regularly and I have fond him. And every time I do and he denies it or says that she text and he is answering back. But is not true he starts the conversations.

And take this in mind he won’t let me have guy friends and I don’t usually go out. But he freaks out if I talk about how come he can have girl friends but I cant say. So he will start talking that I should have more confidence in my self. But in the time that we have he has cheated on me so my confidence in him is lost. And he starts saying that if I want to be a hoe to go ahead that he won’t stop me.

I’m so tired of this reactions because he won’t talk to me like he does her or anyone else he gets home and he is always with his phone won’t give us time. To my son and I. And we are trying again for another baby.