How would you handle this situation ?

I don’t appreciate my partner watching half naked girls on tick tock/YouTube I have expressed this to him now he’s saying I should be embarrassed of my self because it’s controlling I don’t want to be looked at as a controlling girlfriend but he always mentions it in arguments about how controlling I am and that it’s odd behaviour. Is this controlling because from we’re I’m standing i find it utterly disrespectful and hurtful?