Any advice?

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So this is a little awkward for a shy person to ask, but any ideas or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Does any one have any advice on how to minimize the soreness that comes the next day from being intimate? Or how to make the soreness go away faster? Ive tried a hot shower, and a heating pad. Thoes are the only ones I can think of. I end up being sore for the next 3-5 days. (Depending on how rough we get.)

Please leave anything you think will help.

Thanks.

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Believe it or not, a friend of mine advised natural yoghurt. Not even kidding- it does wonders :)

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It could be your body changing to accompany the different things happening to it. I know when I first started doing things other than sex with my partner it was like someone had set me alight and was trying o tear my uterus out! It went away after a while, but the stretching of the vagina can seriously hurt if it's never happened before. 
Take painkillers often, and relax. Don't do anything that could cause it to hurt anymore than it already does. 
Also, ask your partner to be more gentle;) let your body get used to it slowly and gently. 
Good luck.

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So if you aren't having sex then what are you doing? What exactly is sore? Inside your vagina, like in your pelvic area or the outside. Because if it's your pelvic and you aren't having sex then I'm not sure why that area would hurt. I hope you guys aren't shoving things up there. But it could be PID, pelvic inflammatory disease which you need to see a doctor about.

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Have you tried using more lube, and foreplay might help. Don't know about afterwards but it could prevent it

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If it's sore every time, and you have regular sex, you need to see your doctor.

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