Boyfriend v . Friend

- [ ] I have a friend that used to complain that we didn’t sit on the phone all day like we used to once I got into a relationship and moved in with my boyfriend. When he and I visited my hometown for our baby shower she complained that I was “ up his butt” and didn’t spend much time with her. It wouldn’t make sense for me to leave him alone somewhere he’s never been for us to have 1on1 time during our special event. I still spent time with her just us, just not the entire visit. Now me and my boyfriend are moving to the same town she lives in and I’m worried she’ll expect me to spend majority of my time with her but it’s not fair to leave my bf out when he’s moving somewhere he knows nobody. I’ve tried to explain to her that our lives are a bit different now but I don’t think she gets it. Especially with us having a baby on the way. She thinks we’ll go out all night like we used to and made the comment “ but your bf won’t let you stay out till 4am like we used to” which it’s more about respect because I wouldn’t want him doing that either.