Anyone been in this situation or similar?

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Hi soooo…. just some insight, the guys I’ve dated have an average sized penis about 4 to 5 inches so that’s what I’m used to. I’ve never dated nor had sex with someone with a large penis…. Fast forward I started dating this tall buff guy and last night we had sex for the first time & he was rough asf like just throwing it in there & when I say it’s huge it’s huge; I asked him could he stop being so rough & he basically said he can’t. Don’t get me wrong I love rough sex(when it comes to an average sized penis) but him? He started off rough like he can’t just stroke it’s like he just have to be rough then he had a thick condom on so that made the sex hurt worse. Anyways we tried different positions because I wanted to keep trying & please him although it was hurting & he just kept pulling it out….. fast forward, I asked him why he keep taking it out & he said cause it’s like I’m just there…. Those words really made me feel some type of way. He wasn’t giving me time to throw it back or any of that bc he kept pulling it out like 2 mins into any position we did & I wasn’t about to be kissing & scratching his back & all of that when it was our first time & idk what he’s into & what not. One thing about me I love to F back from the bottom, side & top but with him having a large penis plus being rough I need time to get used to that being that, I’ve never had sex with a guy with a large penis. I honestly just felt so disrespected….what he said was true because all I was doing is arching my back, had my hand on his chest & I was moaning I wasn’t throwing it back or any of that other stuff but that’s literally because he was hurting me & I wasn’t even turned on because he’s so rough that’s something you’ll need time to get used to being that you don’t have sex like that & the times you did have sex those guys had an average sized penis. I just feel like he wasn’t taking how I felt into consideration. I could’ve told him about himself but I didn’t I just accepted the criticism although I know what I’m capable of…

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Gross! I don’t think it’s his dick size luv. He is just bad at sex. He thinks you were simply there for him to get off. He didn’t give a damn about you or what you like. Being rough when someone is telling you it hurts is SA imo. I wouldn’t see him again and I’d tell him exactly why

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That's not a big dick problem, that's a bad technique problem. So you could argue it's still a dick problem 🥴😂
He sounds like a bad, insensitive lover who can't read your reaction, or simply wasn't bothered enough to pay consideration as to whether you're enjoying yourself.

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Yea it don’t sound like he know what he doing or don’t care enough about your needs. Yuk

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This has nothing to do with the size of his penis. It sounds like the chemistry was off and there was no foreplay or getting in the mood. Sounds like he had some difficulty and changed positions frequently to fix that. Why do you care what he said? The sex was bad, let it go.

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I couldn't even understand half of what the post was saying lol 😂 can't ppl speak normal English?!

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