Cycle Biddies!!!! AF Due Jan 22nd

Hi Im 28 ttc baby #1 me and my husband have been trying for 4 months...last af no af I just spotted but all my hpt have been negative... my symptoms have been hot flashes back hurts and tired a lil hungry than usual and bloated..I would like some buddies to go through this with.. tell me your symptoms if you have any have you tested if so what did it say