squirting help?

Question

first of all do i need to finger myself to squirt because i used the shower head on my clit and it felt like i was peeing but i never fingered myself
im kinda embarassed if i did squirt, i feel uncomfortable
also is there anyway to get off quicker because it takes a while to use the shower head and im worried that my family will wonder why im in the shower for so long

Answer

Where does “squirt” come from?
Here are MRI pictures of a woman masturbating. The first picture is before she starts, the second one is after orgasm. The yellow is her bladder:

You can see that her bladder filled up during sexual stimulation. This is because of the rapid increase in blood flow to her pelvis. This is where “squirt” comes from. “Squirting” women often describes it as the urge to pee, 
There is no other gland or organ in the pelvis that can carry or produce that much fluid in such a short period of time, only the bladder can hold that much fluid. Before we understood what squirting is, it was thought that stimulating the so-called g-spot inside the vagina. Scientists could however find no proof or physical structure that supports the existence of the g-spot. And on top of that, women started “squirting” during penetration, during rubbing the clitoris, during orgasm, after penetration but well before orgasm. On top of that, modern testing showed that this fluid is pretty much diluted urine.
Today, “squirting” is considered one of the normal responses to sexual stimulation, no matter what it is. Not all women “squirt” or want to “squirt”. Some women that do “squirt” do not want to “squirt”. The choice is yours on what to do when you get that urge to pee during stimulation. There is no shame in “squirting”.
“Squirting” should not be confused with female ejaculation which is much less fluid of a different consistency and color.

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Or you could just use your fingers. Rub it

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You don’t need the shower head to get off, try fingering your self while rubbing your clit with the other

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No you can squirt without fingering. If the shower head has the option change the setting and turn the water up for more pressure or lay under the faucet while running.

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It all depends on your body and what feels best but a lot of women simply need to give attention to the clit in order to fast climax. But it always helps to, “prep” your body, using your fingers lightly trail them on your skin from top downwards. Pause on your breast, depending on what u like, give attention to your nips. Trail your fingers down your belly slowly, continue down skipping your sweet spot, trail down your inner & back of thighs & down your legs. Then, hopefully you’ll feel warmed up from having not touched your sweet spots, & you’ll be ready to focus on just the clit and it shouldn’t take too long to finish.
Same way that when with a guy foreplay can make ALL the difference, obv some are different but for a lot anyway.

Answer

Get a vibrator

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