Two year old being bad

Samantha

How do y'all deal with a two year old .not listening to nothing. Hitting screaming and not gone to bed at night .I have tryed everything. from time out . Moving bed time up he will still fight for hours I mean hours .. I'm all over.the place .and it's.getting old.. I also tryed taking his naps away .. I feel like nothing is working . I keep getting told it's the terrible twos well when does that end . I feel like he might have ADHD or something.i will be talking to his doctor about this also .I know.i can't be the only one. He will listen to his dad .but not me