Double standards

My boyfriend made the comment “ you’re the mom/woman of the house you’re supposed to cook “ I told him I didn’t agree with that and since he’s the man of the house what does he do because I still pay bills and work… the comment just rubbed me completely the wrong way and I don’t feel like I got my point across because he still says he doesn’t feel like cooking. But I’m not either I will feed myself before I entertain that.

P.S. I’m in my third trimester tired and aching ..