Gentleparenting is hardddd

Before I became a mum, I swore that I would be a gentle parent. I was until I had my second child. He is the most beautiful sweet boy but he sure is very active. I am now finding myself shouting and getting irritated. I don’t want to be that mum that shouts but I feel like i have to be firm enough. My sweet boy keeps me on my toe. I want to be that fun happy and gentle mum again but my second born is the true definition of “gentle parenting is for gentle kids, I’m raising ganstas” 😄 I don’t know how y’all do it