Scared to come out to my family as they maybe homophobic

Emerald

I have known I was genderfluid and aroace since I was 13 I have tried to come out multiple times by steering conversation’s in that direction but my family either don’t listen or have Said homophobic stuff but as soon as they realise what they said they apologise but my parents don’t understand the lgbtq+ community and all the fuss over pronouns and sexual identity so I have never have came out to them as I am afraid they will kick me out and I will have nowhere to go as I’m still in school and don’t have a job so unless a friends family or a none homophobic member of my family takes me in I would be homeless. What do you do think I should do?