I feel objectified

I graduated college and about to turn 23 at the end of the year. As soon as I’ve turned 21 Ive been hit on/ crushed on by almost every guy ive come across.

Why?????

On another note, I’ve been groped 3 times pretty severely now since ive been 21. And now anytime I get cat called or hit on (which I almost can’t go out/ do anything without being stared at or hit on) I find it repulsive.

Is something wrong with me? (Ive re-read over this and it all sounds conceded as hell. But I don’t mean it that way, it’s as objective as I can make it, and for the record I don’t like it).

What do I do in terms of altering my mentality or like coping with it?

But why does this happen?