Vent - saggy skin private area

My daughter is two

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I was thinking “I look the same down there” NO I DONT 😩

Is it normal after vaginal birth to become a little saggy? Like extra skin down there? I wanted to cry so bad. That’s what this man sees when he goes down on me? My confidence just plummeted. And I have a freaking hemorrhoid that’s been hanging around literally since I gave birth so this poor man sees it all.

If it is normal is there anything I can do to fix it? Certain exercises? Thanks y’all ❤️