Was gonna get married

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So me and my SO was gonna elope and get married soon but everyone in my family especially my mom made me feel trashy for doing a courthouse wedding or a very small ceremony and buy a very simple dress while I’m pregnant and have a fancy legit wedding next year once I’m back in shape etc and all of our family and friends could attend. I’m bummed but I feel it’s just better to wait. Ugh 😩