Have to ask what’s your living situation ?

It’s sad when now a days you have to ask guys when trying to date what’s their living situation. The 3 people we exchange numbers and in conversation I asked them “what’s your living situation?” One said me and my ex wife live in the same house with our kids, because she has no where to go. The second guy say me and my child mother live together. The third guy we were talking for last 5 months go on date, “baecations” and even spent the night at each other house a couple times . Now he’s like oh if we spend a night again, it has to be at your house from now on. I asked why he said because it just has too. Major red flag 🚩.It’s best just to be single now a days because, a lot of these guys but not all are sick. Has anyone else experienced this lately?