I haven’t finished with a guy but love sex?

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So I lost my virginity last year, so I’m definitely still learning about sex and my own body. I’ve hooked up with a few guys but now I’m hooking up with one specific one and I’m hoping something more grows. Anyway, I have found that I don’t finish without the aid of a toy, even if he is going down on me although I can finger myself no problem. Him fingering? Not so much. But, I don’t mind if I don’t finish. I love the intimacy of making HIM finish and apparently, Im pretty good at it. I figure I can take care of myself later if I want to, ya know? But the making out, foreplay and actual sex? I love it just because it is so intimate and I like making my partner feel good.

So my question is: do any of the rest of y’all feel this way? And is it normal that I find it hard to orgasm with a partner but am okay with it?