My family forgot my baby’s 1st birthday

It’s one o’clock on a Monday and I get it, it’s the beginning of the work week and everyone has life happening. Normally, I’ll do a cute post for my babies birthdays and then My family will start contacting us with birthday wishes for them. But I haven’t done my post yet today because I just gave my family a heads up last Wednesday that it’s my second daughters 1st birthday today and about her party that I invited them to is this weekend. Well none of my family is coming to her party cause we live two hours away from them but they have also not wished her a happy birthday yet and haven’t posted up any cute birthday wishes for her. I have a large family that we are relatively close to each other so you could certainly say my feelings will be hurt if no one in my family wishes her a happy 1st birthday today but I guess I’ll see what the rest of the day looks like. I just feel like it’ll hurt the most if my own mom doesn’t wish her grand baby a happy 1st birthday because she is normally so good about making sure to do that and write down all her grandkids birthdays. Has anyone else dealt with this before and if so how’d you handle it?