Help 🥺

I agreed to have sex with a guy i was talking too but i didnt tell him i was still a virgin (or rather he assume d i wasnt and i didn’t correct him)…he then figured it out( because it was so tight and he couldn’t get it in, which i still dont know if its normal or not) he stopped completely and got dressed…is there anything wrong with being a virgin? What can i do to make sure im not tight and a guy can easily slide in.