My bf is so irresponsible at times and it makes my blood boil. Anyone else’s partner like this?

I’ll start by saying I hate to complain because there are things he does help with but he is also so irresponsible at times and it’s such a pet peeve and stresses me out. He does try but like come on.. Just in the past 2 weeks these are some examples of what I’m talking about- we have not even been able to use our car in 2 weeks because he lost the car keys. Literally has absolutely no clue what he did with them we’ve looked everywhere and still haven’t found them. So we’ve been having to borrow his moms car or get rides from her when we need to do anything. Otherwise we’ve been “carless”. We have 2 kids both who have been sick for a little over a week now. We have a toddler and newborn. Our newborn ended up having to go to the hospital and has been admitted for a few days. Ive been staying at the hospital with our newborn and he went home with our toddler. I had the house keys so when he left to go home I gave them to him and literally made a point to tell him DO NOT LOSE THEM. I told him at least 3 times before he left to not lose the keys. Sure enough he texts me later and says he lost the house keys so him and our toddler went to his parents and they’ve been sleeping on the couch there the whole time I’ve been in the hospital with baby because he cannot find the keys. I was pissed of course but what can I do about it from the hospital. Since they’ve been staying there I wanted to make sure our toddler has what he needs like wipes diapers and certain snacks/drinks he likes etc. so I placed an order last night on Walmart.com to have some groceries and stuff delivered to his parents house. I told him last night I was placing the order and told him what time it would be delivered. I even double checked with him about the time before placing the order because he said they’ve been sleeping in but he assured me he would be awake to get the order. So I placed it, this morning it got delivered so I text him to tell him to bring it in since there’s cold stuff. My texts won’t deliver and his phone is going straight to voicemail. He is notorious for not plugging his phone up before he goes to bed so it dies in the night and he always does it at the worst times. Even though I constantly have to remind him to plug his phone up. It’s now going on 3pm and I still can’t get ahold of him so his phones still dead and there’s just $50 worth of groceries that’s been sitting on the porch at his parents house for 3 hours now, I’m sure most of which have gone bad already🫠 it’s things like this that just almost make me furious because I don’t understand how he does it. I NEVER lose important things especially something like car and house keys, I maybe misplace them every now and then but never to the point that they can’t be found. I always make sure my phones plugged up and would definitely make sure my phone was charged if one of my kids was in the hospital. It’s just so beyond aggravating. It’s like he never learns from his mistakes because things like this aren’t just “one time occurrences” he constantly does these things. Like you’d think after he lost the keys to our car that he would have thought to be extra cautious with the house keys and tried to make an effort to NOT lose them and he somehow still did. It makes me feel like I can’t depend on him or trust him as a life partner. I’m glad he’s taking care of our toddler right now but at the same time I’m already stressed out being here in the hospital now I’m stressing about how we’re gonna get in the house when we leave here and still stressing about the car and now wondering if our toddler is gonna have what he needs it’s exhausting.