Long story question

I met a guy through hinge. I talked to him for a few weeks in June. He was kind of hard to read at first because he didn’t say a whole lot but he kept talking to me. Then for a week he was super communicative and sending me all kinds of pictures and telling me about his family and stuff and then again it was less words. We finally met at the end of June. It was great! I’m telling you. We went to a Mexican place and then went back to his place which was above a store and we just hung out on the roof and cuddled. He wanted me to stay but I was on my period or the end of it and didn’t want to deal with it. I did not stay. The next day he was texting me all day. The day after like nothing. He would respond but didn’t say much. And it was a Friday and I didn’t have my kids so I wanted to show out but he was being real weird. He ended up texting me this:

“I would definitely hang out with you and make you feel warm and fuzzy cause i think you definitely need that. I dont know that we will ever fall in love though”

And I said wtf does that mean??? I ended up going to his place and the sex was amazing. After that he was just like the beginning like sporadically tlsking go me but not saying much. Fast forward I ignored him for a few days and he ended ip texting me a bunch and unsending them. Then called me drunk and I didn’t answer. He said “you blocked me” and I said no, I don’t k ow what you want from me. I am sad” and he called again and was super nice and talked to me and I went to his house and it was great. The next day we went to a concert- separately but I saw him there. My older friend got insanely drunk and was saying shit to him and behind him but I didn’t know because I was up front the whole time.

ANYWAY, it wasn’t good and we didn’t really talk after that, not for my lack of trying. A few things occurred that I won’t write s book about but he has been texting me on and off for a couple months. I hung out with him a month ago and he clearly didn’t want to have sex with me but wanted to cuddle. He also wanted to go to the store and get a board game and so we played a board game together. It was cute. Then he was weird again. Finally a couple weeks later we hung out again and we did have sex but he sends a few texts the next day and is silly. After that nothing. He would respond to me every time but really wasn’t trying to communicate. So that was Friday night. Sunday I texted him a very silly funny story. And he responded but then nothing. Nothing for two days. So last night at 11:40 he texted me “guess what” which he always does. I did not respond. Then this afternoon at 2 he said “well since you won’t guess, blah blah blah” somehring dumb.

What am I doing? He clearly won’t commit to me right? There’s so much more detail if you can believe it. I really want to respond to him but I know I shouldn’t and now that it’s been so long I know it wouldn’t be smart. Do you think he will text me again? What am I doing? I like him. We have a lot in common and we are both very silly. I like having silly conversations with him. Do I keep ignoring him? Should I wait? I want to respond! What am I doing? I feel like an idiot. I am too old for this.