Break up

My boyfriend broke up with me two times now… we are long distance btw. The first time he broke up with me he said I keep scrutinizing him. I asked him if he could be a bit more affectionate through text when we aren’t physically with each other and he basically didn’t want to do that and ended things. I was complaining about how dry he would text me and I’m always showing affection to him through text but it was one sided so that’s why I brought that up. He hit me up the next day wanting to meet up and talk in person so I did that and we came to an agreement he also stated that he was wrong for texting me dry etc because he wasn’t like that in the beginning. I also apologize for scrutinizing him a lot cuz I know it can get annoying. He decided that he’s gonna try and be more affectionate through text but that only lasted for a day. I bought it up again and he basically told me he’s been stressed cuz of work, his father having cancer and I let him know that just communicate with me when ur not feeling well and I would give him his space. He then decided we should stay friends. This is the second breakup. I didn’t mind being friends with him because his mental health comes first at the end of the day and even though I’m hurt that we broke up I still have to respect his decision and I can be cordial. The following day he kept sending me funny videos on Snapchat and everything was okay. Later on in the evening my step sisters took me out of the house cuz they saw me looking down/sad so they wanted me to take my mind off of everything that’s been happening. I went out and took pictures of the scenery of where I went and posted it on my snap status and this guy sent me a message saying how I already got a man and I moved on fast. I told him that wasn’t true and still he just believed whatever he created in his head. He then send me a long message saying he no longer want to be friends with me and telling me goodbye. I told him how I felt and he didn’t even read my messages until 12hrs later. After he read my message I basically send him the side eye 😒 emoji and he stated I was being hostile with him and that I should go be hostile with my man. He started saying how our snap emojis of being Best-friends changed to being just friends in a day. Me and him were texting back and forth from regular messages and snap for about 2 days now but him saying that he’s indicating I was talking to someone else I think. The whole thing is just so immature the way he think of scenarios in his head and even when I told him that’s not true he just believes what he wants to believe and paint me as the bad person.