Husband doesn’t love me anymore (edited)

Met in 2015, married for nearly 7 years and had the news broke he doesn’t feel in love with me anymore.

We have an 8 month old miracle after years of infertility and finally being successful with donor sperm.

I’m broken. I don’t know what to do, I love him as much as I always have and can’t imagine my life without him. I’m broken for my son and his future, my future. Has anyone else been through this? Any advice?

I really want him to want to try to fix this as I’m not convinced he doesn’t love me - lots going on but I’m pretty sure he’s having a mid life crisis and I’m bearing the brunt of it. I recognise that might sound like I’m clinging on and maybe i am, but it’s definitely part of the whatever is going on.

Just needed to put this somewhere as have no one to talk to and I don’t want to tell anyone yet ☹️

Edit - the other stuff I mentioned is he’s bored at work and looking for other jobs, has got loads of tattoos all at once and is learning to ride a motorbike. He’s always gone through lots of hobbies - snowboarding, football, golf, trained to be a PT. He gets bored easy and I feel like our relationship is another casualty. I’ve suggested counselling and he’s said he’ll do a session but he’s adamant this is it. I just can’t give up on us and feel pathetic, I deserve better too but just want my husband back, the one I married.

I think we probably didn’t deal with the infertility well like we thought and lost ourselves and stopped having fun so there’s definitely trauma.