Am I being too strict?
After daycare my toddler who is 4, was going to her grandparents and we stopped home first to get her favorite dress. I go in fast, take her dress and new crown and when I’m about to start the car, she asks what about her 2 Barbies! I told her she didn’t mention anything about her dolls and not about to run upstairs again, otherwise she can stay home. When I dropped her off she forgot her crown in the car and my MIL called me to ask if I can turn around. I said no, or if I have to then I’m taking her home with me. So my FIL dropped by to get the crown for her. He makes me feel like crap by saying, she’s only 4 and forgetful. Sometimes, I just feel like her personal servant, on- call for every small little thing, sometimes she even asks to get her cup when it’s right infront of her on the table. I was annoyed and irritated, I did tell her in the car, next time she needs to pack the stuff up she wants the night before. I have 2 other toddlers at home to take care of.
In daycare she has to dress herself, sleep herself and deal with the consequences so why is it that I’m trying to teach my child The consequences of not being organized and not taking care of her toys and being shamed for it??? Am I wrong here?
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