He blames his short comings on me

I met my bf on October 6, 2023. We started having sex. We had sex twice. When we did I told him it hurt me and he told me “it only hurt because you didn’t want to do it right” meanwhile he told me he’ll get the condom then didn’t, I had a backup condom just in case, lube, etc. This time he didn’t message me for two weeks then when I messaged him he told me he’s doing good then went off at me accusing me of not loving him, etc. I told him I do it’s just we didn’t talk for a while and I was concerned. Also for the last two months he’s told me he lives alone and when I ask if we can have date night at his his home he tells me “no people are inside.” He makes plans to meet me in the park at night, when I told him it’s cold let’s go inside he disagrees. When I ask about his family or work he told me it’s strange I’m asking such questions. He has yet to show me his ID or visa or anything to prove to me he is who he is. Not to mention I found two addresses in his phone...