Why don't some of you understand autism?

Question

I have made several posts on here with my struggles with dating because of my autism and some people have been calling me a troll and I am not trolling. I just want advice on my dating life and it's hard for me sometimes because I am autistic and some women on here were mean to me about it saying no one will understand me and it made me depressed and afraid I will not find anyone and I will become some guys like me for who I am. Can anyone say positive things to me about how I will find someone who accepts me who I am so one day I can get married and have kids. It's hard.

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Your last post was about thinking your boyfriend was cheating on you for going to the gym a lot.. and saying most people just want sex. Unfortunately I think those who responded would have had the same reaction whether autism was involved for not ☹️ the internet is a cruel place. You’ll find love once you learn to love and trust yourself. Focus on you first, love will find it’s way to you

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I was the one in your last post who mentioned about your autism. You completely read it wrong!!
I said to you that your new boyfriend must not be only a few weeks together as you posted a few weeks ago about being on a dating site and how some men don’t understand autism. I completely understand and get autism my brother and many other family members have different levels of autism. 
We said you need therapy for your anxiety and also how you have this obsession with sex

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My son is 26 and autistic. He has been in a relationship with a neurotypical lady for several years now. They have their own house, have just gotten engaged and are starting to build their family.
So the answer is yes - autistic people are able to have serious long term committed relationships, building home and family lives.

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You will find the right person, I think in your previous posts you were asking more about how to find people to have sex with. Which is fine, but if you’re looking for a real relationship then starting with wanting sex from them, it usually isn’t going to go anywhere. Sometimes being too forward or aggressive can put guys off, unless all they want is sex too. If you want a real relationship, one you want to move forward with marriage and kids then you have to start out building a relationship, getting to know each other.

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The right guy is out there. Trust and believe ❤️ I’m a full believer that you will have the same chance of finding love than someone without autism.

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They have dating websites specifically for people with autism.

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Most people struggle with empathy and being able to put themselves in other shoes. Some just lack exposure of people with autism and some people are just jerks.
I’m sorry your struggles with dating. I know several people on the spectrum that have been able to find people so definitely possible! Maybe trying meeting with a therapist to help with the social aspect. Finding other people on the spectrum to date online or in groups. Facebook, meetup, and dating apps are a good start. Also finding someone with a common interest helps a lot. Also remember there are people who are not on the spectrum that struggle with dating it’s not just you. Be easy on yourself and take your time, experiment and be okay with making some mistakes. The right person will love you for you!

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@GlowGPT please help me with this topic!

Why don't some of you understand autism?

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