TTC journey

Lately, it seems like the TTC journey has taken a bit of a toll on my partner and I. We both really want a BFP, but timing sex has seems to take away from the “fun” of being intimate and become a chore almost. I don’t want to feel like my husband is having sex with me because we have to, or that it’s the obligation of the fertility window. How do y’all keep the spark alive and not feel this way? I know my husband loves me and I know that I’m internalizing a lot, it’s just hard watching everyone around us either accidentally get pregnant or get pregnant with ease. I only have one fallopian tube due to an ectopic pregnancy years ago, so we knew it would be more difficult but not this difficult :( any advice? We’re trying mucinex and preseed this cycle and hoping and praying for a miracle. I got my peak test today and we did the BD, but then after I burst into tears because it was like a chore and not fun or romantic at all! Thanks for letting me vent and for any advice you may offer <3