To Shave or Not to Shave

I posted this somewhere else but I’m reposting it here to hear some more opinions.

Okay, so I’m 21 years old and it only just dawned on me while binge watching Sex and The City that it wasn’t always normal to keep your 🐱 completely bald. Nowadays, it seems like it is more normal than not (especially because I live by the beach). My question is… are other women my age also shaving it bald before they have sex? Or was it just me thinking that’s what you’re supposed to do this whole time?

From your experiences with guys at this age, do they care about the 🐱 hair…? I’m not sure I care whether they like it or not, but I never imagined that I could actively choose to leave the hair there… what do I do with this information now? And how can I keep it tidy with the hair? Do I just trim or do I shave in select areas or what? Let me know your experiences below, thank you 😎