I grew up as an Orthodox Jew. Both my parents were Jewish but divorced when I was 9. My second time going to college I met my now husband. He and his family are pagan and I decided to leave Judaism and become pagan. I have been in the pagan religion for almost 10 years now and I've never been happier. When my family found out I was cut off by a lot of family. My mom and I actually had a fight and she said either my husband (then boyfriend) or her. I told her if you make me choose it's not gonna be you. She told me I was dead to her. The last time we spoke was in 2016. My dad told me he's always gonna love me and my dad stayed in my life. We just learned to respect each other's beliefs and have a very nice relationship. Me and my husband married and one day I found out I was pregnant. I'm 41, was 40 when I found out and I'm not supposed to be able to have kids. This was a miracle baby. I had my son 3 days ago. I got a call from a number that I did not know. It was my mom. Yelling at me. She asked did I really have a baby. I said yes. She asked how could I not tell her. I'm the only child and she figured because of my infertility I would never have kids. Can we go back in time to 2016? Where she said I was dead to her? I told her that. Then she fucking says if I really cared about her I would have fought for our relationship and that regardless I should have told her about the baby when I knew how badly she wanted to be a grandmother. She told me I was dead to her! She then asked why was my dad in the hospital room with me and I said because I wanted him to be and then she started insinuating my dad was a creep for wanting to see my genitals. She was then demanding I let her see my son and I hung up. How is she gonna cut me off and then get upset that I didn't tell her I was pregnant? I had a terrible birth. 4th degree year. Needed a blood transfusion and this is what I'm dealing with 4 days after