Is same sex and Hetero sex the same thing

Two guys or two girls is not sex. I don't consider oral sex as real sex. I don't consider anal sex as real sex. Real sex is when a dick goes into a vagina. Yes you can't technically lose your virginity to a girl but to pop the cherry all it is a stretching the skin. You can do a split and pop your cherry. I don't consider scissoring as real sex.  And sex toys isn't real sex.  A dick has to go into the vagina for me to even consider it Sex. Everything else is foreplay.