I feel pain during sex, and a ton of bleeding

Kolbi-Sheldon

Me and my partner have had sex 3 times, the first being my first ever time and i expected it to hurt and to bleed. that was last monday. we had sex again twice yesterday and it still feels like i'm just being pumped with air. I don't even realize he's balls deep, it feels numb. and it HURTS. like i know the first few times are gonna hurt but even just touching it after is painful. DAE feel like they're just getting pumped with air when having sex?