Theory

If a person chooses to hurt you when you show them something so different does it mean they enjoy inflicting this pain onto you?

For example you’re in a relationship with someone and he decides to blame you for his feelings. Does it mean he has a problem? I mean he must enjoy doing it. Putting his problems onto somebody who never asked to be part of it.

Then when you’re ready to find happiness with somebody who will accept it he comes back and says all the things he can think of to hurt you all over again.

Do we deserve to be blamed for somebody else’s ideas about ourselves?