AITA?

I’m 25 weeks pregnant, have been experiencing pelvic pain and back pain for three days now, to the point where I can’t sleep. So I’m also dealing with exhaustion.

My boyfriend is big in fitness and working out, today he wanted to go to the gym after not attending in a while. I explained to him I would like to skip out today as I’m feeling quite exhausted and in pain. He tells me it’s okay and to stay home.

Yet while he’s getting ready, I can tell he is aggravated so I ask if he’s okay. He blows me off with a bit of attitude, so I decided to let him be for the time being. Then he gets angry at me for looking at him, and says “what!” And I go, “I’m just looking, can’t I do that?” And he goes “no you’re looking at me with fear.” I explain to him that if I am I do not mean to. Yet he slams the door in my face.

Again to avoid an unnecessary fight I let him be, he comes into tell me goodbye, which I reply I love you. He shakes his head and says “you p*ss me off, you’re lazy.” My mouth drops and I shake my head and say “okay I don’t know how to respond to that.” He slams the door in my face.

Minutes later he comes back into the room to say “it’s crazy that after that you still won’t get up and come with me.” And I go, “for days now I’ve been in pain and not sleeping, I’m in pain I’m exhausted.” He just now texted me to not speak to him today because he’s done and tired of me.

Am I in anyway in the wrong? What can I do or say to make the situation better? This is both f ours first pregnancy/child experience.

Update/Edit: he said some very hurtful things through text, such as he regrets getting me pregnant and comparing me to those fitness pregnant women on instagram. He said all I do is eat and sleep. I just simply broke down. Because he completely sucked all the feelings of worth and value I had left right out of me.

Update number 2: he has apologized and gave me a hug, and is currently buttering me up by giving me hugs and snacks I enjoy. And I’m just sitting in silence staring off into the distance because i genuinely don’t even know what to do or say.

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